Interestingly enough, my late fiancé (he died back in 1995) was a nice guy; a nice guy that I took for granted in some ways.I remember him once asking me in August if I wanted him to bring me back something from his hometown (he lived in a big city) and I told him that I wanted a Mac lip pencil in Chestnut. When a man goes beyond merely hearing you to actually retaining what you have to say, that makes a woman feel appreciated and on some levels, even safe because she’s in the presence of someone who cares enough to care…about whatever it is she cares about. A down-comforter-on-a-winter’s-day-cozy-feeling kind of nice. And yes, I know that some of you nice guys who are reading this are probably thinking “Well, if we’re so awesome, why do so many women treat us like little brothers or even worse, like total crap?
If you've got a question about anything related to singleness or living the single life, please submit it to : Have you ever noticed that the most attractive and interesting women seem to be attracted to men who don't treat them very well?And that the "nicer" you are to a woman the more she often seems to act like "just a friend" to you?It makes all the difference in a relationship.” As I was just telling a few of my girlfriends, in hindsight, I realize that a kind guy was never on my priority. Even if they are shy, they still find some way to convey their level of interest and where they want the relationship to go.Nice guys are who you can call when you’ve had a hard day at work or when you receive bad news. There is nothing like talking to someone who listens to you. If it’s on the phone, they wait patiently until you finish without cutting you off and if it’s in person, there is complete and total eye contact.In your 40s, which is me, you want a man who can fix your car. Hopefully, by the time this article is done, the men who are nice will see just how wonderful they truly are and the women (no matter how old they are) who are checking it out as well will learn to give nice guys more than a second look. And shoot, not only just hang around them, but even go on a couple of dates with them too.
That’s because I’m going to attempt to share with nice men a few things that women eventually come to realize about them. In your late teens and early 20s, nice guys are the ones who go to proms and banquets with you because they like you as a person; not just so they can get inside of your pants.Women aren't usually romantically attracted to "nice" guys.Women are attracted to men who are funny, confident, and mysterious.And a woman who is truly ready for marriage is going to take note.That’s why I am a firm believer that nice guys don’t finish last; that nice guys actually finish best.That way, perhaps they’ll drop the ridiculous motto “Nice guys finish last” and pick up “Nice guys, when they choose to remain nice, more times than not, finish best.”Nice guys are kind (by very definition of the word). And as you mature, you also realize that they are the ones who make dates and keep them. They tend to know just where they are taking you and it’s usually a place that is sweet and memorable.