Dating at 40

And, of course, there are many great advantages to using Elite Singles too!For tips on how to get the very most out of our 40 plus dating service be sure to read the section below... Our intelligent matchmaking system is designed to find you compatible matches based on your location, education, income and personality.We waited a long time to focus on settling down, and now we’re facing a somewhat distressing fact of life: Once you’re over 40, there is a diminished pool of men to choose from.

An inclusive site, catering for singles from every walk of life - from Christian singles to divorcees, LGBT singles to single parents - we rely on our intelligent matchmaking system to find potential partners who are perfect for you.Once you've signed up and taken our personality test, we send you 3-7 new matches a day and are determined to streamline and optimize your online dating experience.The average age of our US members is 44, which not only makes us a great place to start your own over 40 dating story but also means that we're designed to serve mature members.Our members aren't just mature either - 82% are educated to at least Bachelor Degree level.You have to work hard to find someone you really want and really like – or, as one married male friend put it, “someone normal” (apparently normal men are in short supply).

The search is a kind of journey, and along the way you tend to learn a few things about yourself, and about the society we live in. Everyone knows lots of fabulous single women in their 40s …but can’t think of any equally fabulous single men the same age.

Since we know the majority of our members are busy professionals, with little time in their schedule to search for a meaningful relationship, our purpose-built app is designed to help you find love whenever you have the time to.

Imagine, you could find long-lasting love the next time you're heading into work on the morning train, in line at the market, or even waiting at the doctor's office!

The vast majority of our members - a staggering 82% no less - say they have no qualms about dating someone with kids.

For more detailed advice on dating a single parent, as well as how to approach things with your children, read our guide in the Elite Singles online magazine.

One of the great things about dating in your 40s is that - having experienced so much of life, and learnt so much about yourself - you are more discerning in knowing what to look for in a partner. Every new member takes our unique personality test so we get a good sense of who you are - it takes a little time, but in the long-run could easily find you the like-minded love you crave!