The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run. When a guy disappears, it’s almost inevitable to feel a flood of self-doubt.Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would. You didn’t do anything wrong and you are “good enough” to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasn’t it.
over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.
After that weekend, he never contacted me or we haven’t talked.
OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.
He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.
And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out.
They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you.
I know plenty of gorgeous, smart, funny, successful, amazing women who have had the vanishing act pulled on them and it didn’t make them any less gorgeous, smart, amazing, etc.
A guy can lose interest for any number of reasons and oftentimes it has more to do with him than with you.
If not, read this next: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This... After seventeen days I was stressed at his sudden ghosting, I missed him and the situation was nagging me, haunting me, and so I decided to go to his home fifty minutes drive away and confront him.
I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.
If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!