It’s not uncommon to see profiles that begin with “I am HIV-positive” and go on to list the poster’s other interests, as they do on the pet-lovers personals site Love Me Love My Pets.com, or JDate.com, which is for Jewish singles.Remember, though, there’s no reason you can’t use or She Wired or any other mainstream dating site.
Online dating helps you quickly and simply find your dream partner.
Dating is tough in general, but being a woman who is HIV-positive presents a whole host of unique questions and issues.
If it happens it probably happens in the first couple of years of infection, and after that it’s rare.”That’s one reason that if your viral load is undetectable in each of you, some doctors now say that you do not need to use condoms, because an undetectable viral load means you cannot pass along HIV—whether your sex partner is positive or not.
This is fiercely debated in some circles, so talk with your doctor for her recommendation. If it breaks before ejaculation, have him pull out and put on a new condom.
If you’re both HIV-positive, you should both see your doctors and talk to them about possible reinfection.
If you’re the only person with HIV, your partner should explain to their doctor that they had unprotected sex with an HIV-positive person.This is a personal choice, really, but many women say that disclosing on a website is an easy way to take the fear of rejection out of meeting new potential dates.It lets you screen out the losers who can’t handle a woman like you.She says that way she hasn’t invested too much energy in the relationship before finding out whether having HIV makes her a no-go for a potential partner. It’s called reinfection, it can up your viral load, and it’s why many experts want you to continue using condoms (plus they also prevent other sexually transmitted infections).But, says Alex Garner, a program coordinator at the National Minority AIDS Council, “So many people are still confused and conflicted by [reinfection info].The longer you wait, the more difficult it gets,” they note.