You’re awesome, but no one on the site will know about this unless you tell them! It’s a numbers game, and the more you outflow, the more attention you will attract (the more people will view your profile) and the more contacts you will make and dates you will be able to set up. Other times they may have some life event happening at that exact moment in their life which puts them off dating at all, such as an exam, a busy period at work, a vacation, etc.d. Examples of events like this are group Shabbat dinners, events celebrating the various Jewish holidays and parties (Purim and Chanukkah parties are usually great).
To find Jewish social events, first make sure you are part of or in some way connected to Jewish groups (sounds obvious but some people forget this step).
Sometimes Jewish groups also organize specific Jewish singles events.
Examples of Jewish groups are Aish Hatorah (Orthodox group), Moishe House (generally Conservative, but Jews of all backgrounds welcome) and Hillel (Jewish college-level group).
If you don’t know any Jewish groups in your area, you either are not involved at all in Judaism (and need to get involved) or there are basically no other Jews in your area (in this case you should move to where there are Jews or do the 1st option above – online dating).
There are two main options here for online dating sites.
The first option is getting yourself on a Jewish-only dating site.
There are much less members there than on JDate, but it is well built and easy to use.
You can message anyone you want and read anyone’s messages on this site.
In my case it just seemed to always work out better.
So of the two options above, I would recommend to do both but give extra priority to meeting Jewish girls in person at social events. :-b In my opinion there are only a few things that are key in dating Jewish girls. Along with this, Jewish girls are looking at marriage and children down the line.
You can create a profile on JDate for free, but you cannot message anyone until you get a paid membership.
Also if someone who has a paid membership messages you, you are notified about that but cannot read that email (you have to pay for a membership first to read the email itself).
” As you can imagine these questions and the answers provided by each member can show you quite a lot about the person before you even contact them, which is great!