It's a way of getting "true" information about something. And they don't teach you what you need to know BEFORE they test you. They're right out in the open, obvious to other women (and a few men), but for the most part, they go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED. Most of the things we do with women are NOT CONSCIOUS. You've failed a million tests with women already, so don't worry about ten more. Most men respond by trying to win the woman's approval.For instance, let's say that you're standing at a bar talking to some friends, and you make eye contact with the cute girl standing six feet away from you. When a woman looks at you, and you look away, it wasn't a "conscious decision". All of a sudden, you're feeling butterflies and glancing away. So you first need to recognize when it's happening to you. If she tries to cancel plans at the last minute, you'll say "Oh, no problem". Do you have all the traits that can make your partner happy?
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At some level, the woman you were dealing with was testing to see how much control she had in the relationship. Women test men because they need to QUICKLY figure out what they're dealing with, and they can't expect a man to just be straight up and honest about his strengths and weaknesses. us guys like to talk a big game, but when it comes to walking the talk, we often can't back it up.
but if he DOES what she asks, she will be disappointed and ANGRY with him.
For most guys, the concept of a woman "testing" them seems a little strange. So I was thinking about this particular topic today, and I realized that I've never looked up the definition of the word "test". If you ask him if he's strong enough to deal with the challenges of life, support a family, and reach his goals, he can LIE. In other words, if you get to the end of one of your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask you if you have a comprehensive understanding of the material you learned during the course. So the teacher gives you a TEST to see if you REALLY know what's going on. And they're not interested in getting together with a man who doesn't "get it" in the first place. If you are a Wussy, and you fail the "Wussy Tests" that she throws at you, then you stand very little chance succeeding with the woman who is testing you. If you act like a Wussy, but you're willing to pursue a woman for a few YEARS, and deal with the idea that you have about a 1 in 100 chance, then you MIGHT be able to convince her to marry you. Now, I can't go into all the aspects of how to deal with tests from women... But I will say that the most IMPORTANT thing to do is EXPECT tests...
When I did, here's what I found: The purpose of a test is to figure something out. If you walk up to a man and say "Hey, how much money do you make? Well, in the same way that teachers test students, women test MEN. But there's one LITTLE TEENSY WEENSY difference between the kinds of tests that women give you and the kinds of tests that teachers give you... But like I said, the chances are VERY slim, and the effort required just isn't worth it. Probably the most interesting thing about tests from women is that they're not OBVIOUS. In fact, I'd say that 99% of all the tests that women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR. Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a few seconds. and then pay close attention to how you're responding to them.
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But you couldn't test by saying "OK, I'm going to give you a test now, so get ready". And in fact, you'd want to use tests that ideally This way, if he turned out to be a was a Wuss Bag, you could slip away quickly and easily. If you'd like an introduction to my main concepts and to learn the basics of how to be more successful with women and dating, then go right now and download my e Book Double Your Dating.
Finally, learn how to PAUSE before you respond, and then UNDERSTAND how you need to respond to each test.