Yes, there are honest Asian ladies that use the chat room. So good luck sorting through the garbage to find the sweet, loving, honest and beautiful lady you desire. It is not normal for a sincere Filipina lady to ask you for money after chatting for a few days or weeks in a café. If this has happened to you then I am sorry but just move on.
Many of these ladies have children, husbands, boyfriends and many times their significant others have full knowledge of what they are doing.
They spend your hard earned cash that was meant for an operation, processing immigration papers, to pay for medications, travel expenses, or whatever story was made up for you. Since i am a Filipina and know the Filipino culture please listen to what I am saying.
Your odds of stumbling across a scam artist are extremely high.
Your desire for an instant relationship makes you likely target for professional hustlers that use the Internet café for a source of income.
The best way to find a Asian lifetime partner is through email, postal letters and dating.
If you do not have the patience to form a real relationship, then you are better off being alone or sleeping with hookers.
They drive around in Trikes to search for Filipina girls for cheap sex.
They film sex movies with them in cheap hotel rooms.
However, this is after they have already formed a bond which started somewhere else.
This is completely different and if you think about it there is a very clear distinction.
At least with a hooker you know the price up front and you can protect yourself by practicing safe sex.