They say these men are often looking for a same-sex experience but packaged in such a way that they have deniability.
A lot of guys who show interest in TS's are, in fact, bisexual. TS's tell me that most of the guys who contact them are, in fact, bisexual or bi-curious.
hier, @real Donald Trump rencontrait l'"experte"@Kim Kardashian pour discuter de la réforme carcérale... There is a special class of woman out there, with a different set of attributes than the "genetic girl," or GG. Her look, her voice, her movement, her laugh, her smile, her scent, and all those other feminine cues that trigger interest and a masculine response from a guy. Therefore, if a straight man finds himself interested in a pre-op transsexual and is experiencing some confusion as a result, then he needs to consider exactly what it is about her that is attracting him. A TS who hangs out online gets a million instant messages and emails about sexual encounters.Therefore, a man doesn't need to bring up TS issues on the first date. I keep using the expression, "a TS with the sensibilities of a GG..." for a reason, to distinguish the TS who wants to be treated as a woman, who fully identifies with being a woman, from those who cater to the submissive male crowd, the bi-male crowd and the thrill-seeking crowd for money. If he's just looking for a blowjob from a TS, or wants to suck some TS dick, cool. If he wants to get something real going, then forget about the escorts. Those girls get lied to every hour of every day and have heard it all.Instead, he should focus on her, her life and her interests. Doing things this way will likely make a very big impression. The genuine TS -- one with the sensibilities of a GG -- won't likely be promoting herself as a shemale any more than a GG seeking a real relationship will be promoting herself as an "escort." That means, one who advertises herself as a shemale or shemale escort likely has a viewpoint not very compatible with developing a sound relationship. They aren't likely to believe that the average Joe asking for a simple date is serious. Any guy who is chronically misunderstood by GG's will be able to appreciate the viewpoint of the TS. Can he relax around her and just enjoy being with her, as if she were a GG? A pretty TS said she wants "a man with class, respect, morals, intelligence, humor and loyalty." She is having great difficulty finding a man like that.
One guy told me dating a so-called independent woman "is like dating your brother." Who among the women of today delight in being extremely (and classically) feminine? Others find solace with a pre-op transsexual because she used to be a male and has a far better understanding of what it means to be male than most GG's ever will. In other words, treat her like he would any GG date, at a pace that he can handle, given his concerns. This quote came to me this evening as I was writing this article. Some men find today's so-called independent woman to be not very feminine at all, overly assertive, argumentative, prone to characterizing a simple male advance as "harassment," and a general pain in the ass to be around. They seek to deny (to themselves, probably) that sex with a person who has both tits and a dick is homosexual in nature, when the guy is sucking that dick or getting fucked by it.Definitions: A "pre-op transsexual" is a woman in the wrong body, one who has breasts (through taking female hormones and/or breast implants), and a cock. A "non-op transsexual" means that the TS will not have SRS. I will be referring to both categories of TS as pre-op in this article, since it is a more widely used expression.1. The key thing to bear in mind here is: WOMAN in a man's body. Some careful dialogue with the guy usually uncovers the fact that he was very attracted to the TS's femininity. What a pre-op transsexual woman wants in a guy is what most any woman wants in a guy. If a guy wants to develop a relationship with a TS (think this through carefully) how should he approach her?He will be on the receiving end of a whole lot of attention, affection, and desire to please. Although transgendered and gay communities ally themselves for political purposes, they otherwise have little in common. I will remember what you wrote so I will not act like a fool and ask her about sex all the time and respect her as a true woman.