Although you may be tempted to take advantage of sharing that special, limited time with him, you will not allow this to occur as it shows him that he is your number one priority, although you are not his primary concern. There is no way for him to maintain two honest and open relationships in this situation .
Never forget that these types of relationship contain high levels of romance and drama just by their very nature, whether real or imagined, this is so. Many will even claim to have separate sleeping quarters, Don't believe that lie even for one fleeting second.
If this is the case, he respects women and is probably being honest about how the marriage went wrong. You could potentially spend years in the shadows of his life loving him and hoping for change only to find, in the end, all of your love was in vain.If, on the other hand, he runs her down and blames the failure of the marriage solely on her you need to be extremely careful. It is best to avoid the situation altogether if possible, but if you find yourself in this predicament, you are not alone.There will be serious limitations and you should consider them thoroughly before embarking on an affair or continuing your affair with a married man.It is entirely possible that someday he may leave his wife, however, , and you have no guarantees that his marriage will end.What you can expect when engaged in this type of relationships are a lot of spontaneous changes in your ability to see each other.
Expect last minute rendezvous at the drop of a hat, but .
Until he files for divorce, a woman in this predicament would be wise to continue to date single and available men concurrently.
, but if you simply can't, don't limit yourself to being his woman on the side, continue to investigate other relationship options.
It is possible that he does project himself into a divorce, however, he may have reasons that lead him to believe that the timing of a divorce is just not right for him at present.
The question you must ask yourself is, How much time are you willing to invest in waiting to see if he will end his marriage and move forward into a relationship with you?
If you can't bring yourself to do so, you are going to be very lonely at times.