As frustrating as the circumstance could seem like, it’s a lot more common than you think!
Girls may assume that just batting their eyelids at a guy or smiling at him is enough of a sign for him to approach them.
Or perhaps, he’s looking for a fling thing, but just biding his time for the right opportunity to seduce you! [Read: 30 subtle, obvious and sexy flirting tips to use on a guy who likes you] #4 You mean too much to him. Sometimes, however unlikely as this may seem, a guy may choose to stay friends with a girl he really likes instead of asking her out because he doesn’t want to ruin the perfect platonic relationship both of you share.
Guys say they’re put off by a girl who plays hard to get, but at the same time, if you come across as very easy, that’ll give a guy more reasons to walk all over you.If you’re wondering why he hasn’t asked you out, ask yourself if you’re giving into him too easily.Or maybe you aren’t the kind of girl he’s looking for.So until he finds the right girl, he may just choose to flirt with you and use you as the backup girl.Is he giving all the right signs, but not really doing anything about it?
Does he flirt with you, stare at you, but hold back from asking you out or telling you that he likes you?
At times, a guy may not make the effort to pursue you because he knows you’re very into him already.
[Read: How to attract and keep a guy interested in a way he’d find irresistible] #8 The happy flirter.
[Read: 15 accidental conversation starters you can use on a guy you like] #2 He’s taken. If a guy flirts with you, sticks around you and displays every sign that he’s crazy about you, and yet, he holds back from asking you out, he may just think you’re too good for him.
Yes, he could be dating someone else, or worse, married already! Well, in all probability, he likes the attention he’s getting back from you. If a guy thinks you’re a goddess who would never even be interested in dating a mere mortal like him, he may just choose to hang out with you and subtly flirt with you, instead of asking you out on a real date.
But surprisingly, almost always, if a guy behaves like he likes you and hits on you, but stops himself from asking you out, the reasons are just a few. Has he ever tried to talk to you by walking up to you?