I don’t like having to wonder if my date is interested in being in a relationship with me, and dating isn’t very fun because of the games involved in the process.
On the other hand I like that American men are more chivalrous than Japanese men and will do things like pay for dates and hold the door open for me. Has your dating experience in Japan been different than in your home country?
I was young and naïve so it was a little scary in the beginning and I soon discovered the dating process in America is quite different from the one in Japan.
When I see a guy on a climbing wall, I’m eager to swipe right.– If you’re an office guy, it’s okay to have one picture with you in a nice suit, but the rest should be casual, so you don’t look boring.– If you like travelling, have one picture with you in front of an amazing landscape.– If you’re an artist use your third picture to display your talent such as playing the piano or painting.
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Something fellow GP writer, Grace Buchele Mineta mentioned in her podcast interview.
In Japan, women can confess their love so it’s not strange if we ask a man out but in America, it seems that women tend to wait for men to ask them out.
This was a little strange to me because I wasn’t sure what to do if I was really into someone.
Another thing that I noticed was that American men tend to pay for dates but Japanese men usually don’t.Anyways, these are the things that I have learned from dating men in America and these are very uniquely different experiences. Quite frankly I don’t think either of them is very effective.The thing that I like about typical Japanese dating custom is that “kokuhaku” (confession) makes the start of relationships more simplified.You have to look as attractive as possible, but this doesn’t mean girls expect you to look like an Abercrombie model.It’s fine if you’re just a regular guy, but some guys’ pictures look like they purposely planned to repel girls! Don’t leave the BIO empty It’s not a good time to be mysterious.Have you ever wondered: this girl is cute, it’s a shame I don’t know if she likes me or not?