VYW are a lot of fun, but god damn, the constant flaking, forgetting, rescheduling, emergencies and cancelling gets extremely irritating, particularly when you’re a busy guy juggling work, family, multiple women, Mission, etc. Easy Compliance – Younger women win here, big time.
Younger women are more likely to go along with any agenda you set for them than older women, who tend to be strongly opinionated and set in their ways.
For purposes of this article, when I say “younger,” I’m talking about women age 18-32, and when I say “older,” I’m talking about women 33 , unless otherwise stated. In both cases, these women are unusual exceptions to the rule. I am not interested in discussing the unusual exceptions to the rule (other than acknowledging that they do indeed exist) and I will ignore any comments complaining that I’m generalizing (because I am) and that there are rare, unusual exceptions out there (duh, I know). Everything I say is within the context of the fast sex dating model I practice and teach, which is represented here (click to zoom): In this model, there are three separate phases: the pickup phase (getting a woman to agree to meet with you one-on-one), the dating phase (getting to sex as fast as possible, ideally on the second date/meet within 3-4 hours of total face time), and the relationship management phase (ongoing sex via a casual or serious relationship, either of which are nonmonogamous).It’s true there are several subcategories within these two broad groups, but I already covered them here. Younger Overview Before I get into this, remember that everything I’m saying here is a generalization. There are very low-ASD 38 year-olds who will bang you on the first date within an hour or two of meeting you with no resistance at all. Generally speaking, younger women are much easier in the pickup/dating phases, but tend to be harder and more work long-term in the relationship phase.The problem is the words I personally don’t like waiting more than two or three dates with zero sex, since I don’t see the point, and there are too many pretty women in the world who are perfectly happy having sex on date two.If you feel the same way as I do, most relationships you’ll have will be with younger women (under age 33 or so) simply because most women over 33 won’t ever get to the point of having a relationship you, because they’ll insist on making you wait too long for sex, causing you to next them and go have sex with the 26 year-old around the corner who make you wait. In terms of keeping a reliable schedule for meets and dates, younger women are difficult, and VYW are extremely difficult.There’s a light and eagerness in younger women’s eyes during sex that frankly, most older women don’t have.
Many women in their 30’s have had much of that “light” burned out of them by stressful kids, numerous failed relationships, financial pressures, and all kinds of other baggage. Hit up You Tube, watch a few interviews of her when she was 19, then watch a few of her today.The younger they are, the more these are both true.In other words, a 18 year-old is going to be easy during pickup/dating phase and an absolute cluster fuck during the long-term relationship phase, whereas a 28 year-old is going to be less easy during pickup/dating and less difficult during the relationship phase. They are absolute nightmares in the pickup/dating phases, but if you are somehow able to persevere, put up with all the ASD, bullshit, woman logic, and ridiculous demands (and in the case of the fast sex model, get very lucky with sex that occurs relatively quickly), then ongoing relationships tend to be easier and more reliable with these women.That doesn’t mean dating women over 33 is 100% bad.In this article and this one I discuss the things about dating women over 33 and how to navigate some of the problems they present.Of course you could follow a more traditional, beta male type of dating, where you have five or more dates before you have sex (ugh, kill me), and thus get more relationships with older women, but getting to sex slowly like that isn’t what this blog or my books are about. Older women, even those who are single mothers, tend to be more reliable and less flaky.